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Can "Playing Hard to get" backfire?
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My Name is Martin and I am the forum administrator. The following rules were designed to maintain order and to allow all members a space conducive to the free flow of ideas. All members are expected to behave accordingly. Please be on your best behaviour, after all, acting silly is really not the best way to impress a potential date. This forum is read by your potential dates and friends, don't give them the wrong impression about you by writing anything crazy. Your entire profile will be deleted if we find that you are harassing other members. Always observe common etiquette and courtesy when participating in this forum. We expect that all members respect each other despite the difference of opinions; personal attacks are frowned upon at SweetLuck.com.
Please be advised that your forum user name and your profile user name should be the exact same. In regards to the Avatar, the only image allowed is a picture of you. If you choose not to have your picture as your Avatar, then if should remain empty, please do not upload a celebrity or cartoon or anything else that is not an image of you. It is extremely important that you observe this rule.
Prior to starting a thread, please search the forum to see if there is a similar or identical topic that has already been activated, if it exists then join in and add to the existing conversation. If it does not exist, then proceed to start a thread. If you can't locate a suitable topic then go to the "All Others" option. Please note that if you join a conversation in progress, you should really avoid going off topic. In other words, do not ask a new question or start going on a tantrum thereby taking away attention from the main topic of the thread; this is called "Hijacking" a conversation. This can be very annoying, so don't do it. Now, that is not to say that you can't go off topic once in a blue, so long as you are able to tie up all the loose ends and make sense of all the points you covered and then wrap it up by bringing them all under the main topic, then you are welcome to tell your wild stories while expressing your on-topic point on view.
Please consider the administrator and moderators as bouncers of a night club. As you well know, bouncers are there to keep everyone safe, but if anyone gets out of line, they will be shown the door. So please respect them and do not argue with them.
If for some reason you notice that your tread or posting is missing, please assume that it was deleted for non-compliance with our rules and policies. We normally try to see your posting with the best intentioned eyes, unless fragrantly in violation. Depending on how busy we are, you may get some time to fix or correct your posting before they are removed. Please note that we do not send you notices or warnings, we trust that you can figure it out by yourself. The rules are not difficult, so we expect that you will fall on the right side of them.
Please do not use profanity, do not put anyone down, and do not use racial slurs or any crazy stuff like that. Avoid using too many capital letters, as this is considered SCREAMING. Do not spam the forum with any sort of advertising or links. Do not get sexual on the forums, save that energy for your passionate posting.
In regards to your personal information, NEVER, EVER, publish or share any information in the forums that would allow a 3rd party to locate your whereabouts, including putting your home or work address, your usual hangout spots or phone numbers.
Please understand that you are solely responsible for what you post in the forums. We can't possibly monitor everything that is posted. Lastly all postings that are not in English will be deleted.
Be safe & enjoy!
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Can "Playing Hard to get" backfire?
by hotgirl » Thu Jun 24, 2010 1:55 am
I been seeing this guy for about four weeks now. When we first met we would talk for hours on the phone and that was before we even went out on our first date During the first and second date I laughed at most of his jokes, I found myself playing with my hair and I even touched him a couple of times when we were talking over dinner. At the end of the night on the first date he walked me to my door and then he did not try to kiss me so I gave him a big kiss on the cheek. He then called me and asked for a second date. I was kind of busy so I rejected his second date offer (now that I think about it I don't think I gave him an alternative day for a second date.) We still remained talking on the phone and then he again asked for a second date and I accepted. The second date went well but I still did not kiss him good night, but I did send him a text right after he went home saying that I had a great time. Anyways, after that we planned a third date, but I got sick and did not feel well enough to go out with him. I'm not sure if he think that I blew him off but I could see him getting that impression since I canceled the date two hours prior to him picking me up. So its been about one week after the 3rd date cancellation and he has been playing really aloof. He has not been calling me as much or text me as much. Whereas before we would text each other like 5 or 7 times a day, now I'm lucky if he text me once the whole day. He no longer calls me in the night as he used to. So yes I must admit that I played hard to get at first ... but just a little bit. So now I'm really worried because he seems like he has lost interest. Could it be that he is the one now playing hard to get or has he moved on? Do you think that he got tired of the chase?
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