I have been dating this guy that I met on this site ( I hope he does not see this) and he lives about 6 hours away from me. Our relationship has been awesome for the last 4 months, but the last few weeks has been awful. Recently he has not been responding to my text in a timely manner. His phone sometimes is off for no good explanations. I can't get a hold of him sometimes during the nights, this occurs a lot during weekends. What I think finally got me having second thoughts was that he hung up the phone during a conversation, and I think I heard a female voice in the background. He called me 20 minutes later and pretended his phone battery died.
A mutual friend told me that there were rumors that he got a girl pregnant. I confronted him about it but he has denied it. His friend also told me that he has been hooking up with girls on facebook. I did not even know he had a facebook account. What is going on? When I asked him he says he loves me but does not do the long distance thing very well. He assures me that nothing is going that he just hates long distance relationships. This is a huge change from the relationship that I was getting accostumed to of the last 3 months. What do you guys think happenend? I'm beggining to think that this might be a train wreck relationships ready to happen! I am a basket case lately…..I rarely let anyone in, before him it had been 1 year since I had dated. Now I am confused and hurt and angry. I love him. Help me! What should I do?
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I am so confused & hurt... Please help me...
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I am so confused & hurt... Please help me...
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